“Give Your Wife Money, Spend on Her. It Will Make Her Like You” – Bishop Thomas Aremu Advises Men

• Bishop Thomas Aremu has urged husbands to financially support their wives, arguing that providing money and meeting their needs can make them feel cared for and strengthen their relationship.
• Aremu also shared how he handles requests from his own wife, explaining that he gives her money even when he may initially question what she wants it for.

Bishop Thomas Aremu has advised husbands to spend money on their wives and ensure they are well taken care of, saying financial gestures can strengthen affection in marriage.

Speaking at a conference, the cleric urged men who have the means to give their wives money and provide for their needs, particularly when they are also responsible for caring for the children.

“Women like money. So if you have money, spend it on them oh. Are you hearing me? And take care of the… give them money. Is she not taking care of the children? And she will like you,” he said.

Aremu also shared how he handles requests from his own wife, explaining that he gives her money even when he may initially question what she wants it for.

“If my wife is asking for anything, even though I feel for what, if she insist, I will give her money. Number one, to have rest. Number two she is my wife, she is not everybody else’s wife. So, and I have the money. Are you hearing me? From level to level. So please take care of her,” he said.

The bishop further advised husbands not to dismiss their wives’ desire for items they may consider unnecessary, using gold as an example.

“She may see one gold now and say she want to buy. Don’t say canality. No. The street of heaven is made of gold. So it doesn’t destroy godliness,” he added.

His comments have sparked mixed reactions on social media, with some agreeing that husbands should provide for their wives, while others questioned whether money alone can sustain affection in marriage.

Reactions

Adigbo Ugochukwu Austin:
Don’t be too “sweet, ” Else they will eat you without table manners

Tochukwu Alain Okafor:
When Charlatans mount the altar of “God”

Edo Dada:
If we give them now..na who go come give us..as a man you’re in trouble

Olubosun Bossman Bossman:
What will now happen if the money finish?

Na that one I want know sir

Aniekan Tim:
Normally, man supposed take care of his wife naw

Humble Gazama:
“Make her like you”

Shey this werey get madness promax ni??? She no like me nayin she marry me???

If na my money she wan ehnnn, make she comot my house go follow sugar daddy. Na my children I need!

Grace Webber:
Na this church me and my husband go Dey attend

Syrex:
Shey this man no hear wetin happen to Kaka the footballer

Ogunsola Idris Abolore:
80% of women escape poverty through marriage and 80% of men enter poverty through marriage

Chinwe Alaribe:
Money without tender and gentleness can,t work out love in marriage

Xtîâñ Rîchard:
Definitely, men should take care of their wives, and the wives should in turn do the same. There’s no point taking care of a woman that doesn’t care about you.